Like many guys, you’re probably not aware of what the honiez are saying with their body language. That’s because body language is a primal language; it’s been used by ancestors for millions of years it has become muscle memory – instinct. In our Hollywood obscured, girl power-glorified, alpha male phobic modern society, it has all been misunderstood. The fact is; did you know that 93% of your communication comes from your body? And if you’re misreading body language, the honiez will unconsciously reject you before you’ve even said a word. Fret not by lonely wolf pack, I have some body language tips that will let you know if you should continue with the chase or look out for another target. Here are my five signs that demonstrate if a chica is interested in you:
1. Hair Play
According to psychologist’s, this is a gurls way of “grooming” herself, making her appear more attractive. Anytime she finds something attractive, (hopefully you in this case) she’ll play with her hair. She’ll either do a quick hair flick, stroking the hair alongside her ear, or if she’s really interested, being twirling her hair. Since this is an unconscious signal (meaning she is unaware she’s doing it), it’s a sure giveaway she’s into you and wants more.
According to psychologist’s, this is a gurls way of “grooming” herself, making her appear more attractive. Anytime she finds something attractive, (hopefully you in this case) she’ll play with her hair. She’ll either do a quick hair flick, stroking the hair alongside her ear, or if she’s really interested, being twirling her hair. Since this is an unconscious signal (meaning she is unaware she’s doing it), it’s a sure giveaway she’s into you and wants more.
2. Body Touch
If a honie touches you, and touches you frequently, take that as a big sign that she’s interested. This can be either very direct (touching your arms, shoulder, abs or body) or more indirect like “accidentally” bumping into you.
If a honie touches you, and touches you frequently, take that as a big sign that she’s interested. This can be either very direct (touching your arms, shoulder, abs or body) or more indirect like “accidentally” bumping into you.
3. Proximity To You
This is especially relative when you’re at a funkie, club or any form of social gathering. Nearly everything chicas do at these types of events, especially where they place themselves, is not accidental.
If you’re hanging by the DH and notice a group of lasses place themselves next to you or very close, it’s not by chance. Gurls do this in hopes you’ll notice them and open a conversation (or re-open).
You’ll notice this especially if you and your dawgs and having a great time. When other honiez see you & your boyz having so much fun, you’ll notice they will begin flocking near you, hoping you’ll talk to them.
This is especially relative when you’re at a funkie, club or any form of social gathering. Nearly everything chicas do at these types of events, especially where they place themselves, is not accidental.
If you’re hanging by the DH and notice a group of lasses place themselves next to you or very close, it’s not by chance. Gurls do this in hopes you’ll notice them and open a conversation (or re-open).
You’ll notice this especially if you and your dawgs and having a great time. When other honiez see you & your boyz having so much fun, you’ll notice they will begin flocking near you, hoping you’ll talk to them.
4. Day vs Night Dates
If you’ve ever asked a honie to hang out during the day and she declines, but then suggests you hang out sometime at night, consider it game-set-match. The daytime is considered “friendly”, and chicas are very aware of this. If you can’t go out on a night time date don’t worry, the “unfriendlier” the hour, the better. So if you both have a 6pm curfew and she wants to hang out late in the afternoon for jam session, then it’s all good in the hood.
If you’ve ever asked a honie to hang out during the day and she declines, but then suggests you hang out sometime at night, consider it game-set-match. The daytime is considered “friendly”, and chicas are very aware of this. If you can’t go out on a night time date don’t worry, the “unfriendlier” the hour, the better. So if you both have a 6pm curfew and she wants to hang out late in the afternoon for jam session, then it’s all good in the hood.
5. Eyes Down
If she looks down. This can be either when you first lock eye’s, or during conversation, let’s take a look at the two.
If she looks down. This can be either when you first lock eye’s, or during conversation, let’s take a look at the two.
After first making eye contact
If she looks down after you first make eye contact, (such as across the room) it’s her way of displaying an invitation to approach.
If she looks down after you first make eye contact, (such as across the room) it’s her way of displaying an invitation to approach.
During conversation
Let’s say you go up to her, as she says hi, smiles slightly and looks down. Take this as a major indicator of interest.
Let’s say you go up to her, as she says hi, smiles slightly and looks down. Take this as a major indicator of interest.
